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How to Not be a Boring Conversationalist

In honor of Hal Gregersen's new book, Questions are the Answer and in the spirit of open-sourcing useful life material, I'm sharing my unimaginatively named 'Question Game.' I created this list of questions to bring along to dates, parties, corporate lunches - anywhere that conversation had a dangerous likelihood of becoming unbearably boring. In new situations, …

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Warm night air on Dallas balcony

Columns of light reflect off the water like positioned guards at attention - securing the weak fortress of my heart. Cricket-choruses sing the black sky to stillness as she hangs thickly overhead the continual momentum of the city's children - alive in their motion. A century ago, sky was married to the darkened landscape - …

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We won’t have good sex until we start hiking mountains

Good sex is not about technique. It’s not about prowess or experience. It’s about presence. It’s about knowing - about knowing and being known. When I hike in the mountains, I recognize that getting to the summit means a series of many many small steps - some joyful, some laboured, some treacherous, some surefooted and …

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